When you experience emotional injury, fear, shame, or pride your first impulse is to hide the hurting parts of yourself from God, others, even yourself. Often you've learned these hiding patterns during childhood to protect yourself in a threatening environment. The problem is that when you hide your injuries and frailties, you isolate yourself from the very things you need in order to heal and mature. What served as protection for a child becomes a prison to an adult. In Hiding from Love, Dr. John Townsend helps you to explore thoroughly the hiding patterns you've developed and guides you toward the healing grace and truth that God has built into safe, connected relationships with himself and others. You'll discover: The difference between "good" and "bad" hiding, Why you hide the broken parts of your soul from the God who can heal them, How to be free to make mistakes without fear of exposing your failures and imperfections, How to obtain the joy and wholeness God intends you to have through healthy bonding with others. Hiding from Love will take you on a journey of discovery toward healing, connected relationships, and a new freedom and joy in living.
Product Identifiers
Publisher
Zondervan
ISBN-10
0310201071
ISBN-13
9780310201076
eBay Product ID (ePID)
116522
Product Key Features
Book Title
Hiding from Love : How to Change the Withdrawal Patterns That Isolate and Imprison You
Author
John Townsend
Format
Trade Paperback
Language
English
Topic
Christian Life / Inspirational, Christian Life / Personal Growth, Christian Life / Love & Marriage, General, Christian Life / Family
Publication Year
1996
Genre
Family & Relationships, Psychology, Religion
Number of Pages
304 Pages
Dimensions
Item Length
8 in
Item Height
1.2 in
Item Width
5.3 in
Item Weight
9.5 Oz
Additional Product Features
Number of Volumes
1 Vol.
Lc Classification Number
Bv4597.52.T686 1996
Table of Content
ContentsPART ONE: The Hiding Dilemma1 Jenny's Story2 Our Two Biggest Problems3 "This Wasn't in Plan A"4 Our Need for Attachment5 Our Need for Separateness6 Our Need for Resolving Good and Bad7 Our Need for Authority and AdulthoodPART TWO: Helpful and Harmful Hiding8 Helpful Hiding: Dealing with Suffering9 Helpful Hiding: Preparing for Relationship10 Harmful Hiding: Six Critical Stages11 Harmful Hiding: The Results12 The Cost of Harmful HidingPART THREE: Hope for Those in Hiding13 Hiding from Attachment14 Hiding from Separateness15 Hiding from Our Good and Bad Selves16 Hiding from Authority and Adulthood17 Coming Out of HidingDiscussion Guide